Ask a different question

Message from CarolAnn

Get better results instantly: ask a different question

“Why did this happen now?”

“Why does my life suck so much?”

“Why is this happening to me?”

How many times have you heard these questions asked?  Have you ever found yourself asking these questions when something happens?  What answers come to you?  Are those answers helpful to you? Chances are, if you’re asking “why,” the answer you get doesn’t change the situation.  So you still end up with…

“this happens”

“my life sucks so much”

“this is happening to me”

So what can you do to get a more useful answer,

one that will help you discover how to change the situation itself

and create instant confidence?

Simply ask “what” or “how” instead of “why.”  When you ask something more like…

“What can I do to make this into a positive?”

“What can I do to prevent this from happening again?”

“How can I do this differently in the future?”

“How can I use this to help someone else?”

Ask these questions and you’ll end up with answers that can actually help you! Remember, you have the power!

Love, CarolAnn

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